Are You Living Your Life By Default or By Design?

We’re All Meant to Live Our Lives by Design Not by Default!

 

Some peo­ple think their cur­rent cir­cum­stances or even their past sets them up for fail­ure. They think they are doomed and don’t have any way out. So, they just accept by default that they will be stuck for­ever, never excelling. Des­tined to be poor, never have recog­ni­tion or true happiness.

What you may not real­ize is we’ve had some per­sonal obsta­cles to over­come. We write blogs together-sometimes just Brian and some­times just me (Feli­cia). Well, I (Feli­cia) haven’t writ­ten a blog post since July 4th– (Let Free­dom Ring with Net­work Mar­ket­ing). That evening was when I got the call that my mother had sud­denly passed away at home. She wasn’t sick, she had recently gone through a com­mon surgery and I still don’t know what caused  her death. We’re still await­ing the coro­ners report almost 2 months after the fact. This has been one of many deaths we’ve expe­ri­enced over the past few years and I’m not telling you this for sym­pa­thy. I real­ize there are many peo­ple with much more hor­ri­ble cir­cum­stances and tragedies. I’m telling you this so you can see that although it may take us time to re-group and get back on track.… we still do. We NEVER give up on our desire to work for our­selves and achieve finan­cial and time free­dom. If you have a real desire to bet­ter your life, you will.

What is so impor­tant to real­ize is that we are designed for great­ness! We sim­ply need to decide to change our mind­set and cir­cum­stances to reflect it. We have the power inside of us to make a dif­fer­ence even in the lives of oth­ers. Even more impor­tant than finan­cial wealth, (which is very attain­able if you work hard) is the wealth you can pour onto oth­ers to help change their lives for good.

You’ve heard the say­ing, “You reap what you sow”? Well, this is very true. If you plant seeds of faith you will see your dreams and desires come to fruition.

We’ve seen all kinds of peo­ple from all walks of life go onto to become mil­lion­aires and really give back to soci­ety in a pos­i­tive way. They didn’t blame their par­ents for abus­ing them, they didn’t blame their spouses for cheat­ing on them, their busi­ness part­ners for steal­ing from them, their upline for not being there for them.…etc. etc.

They took respon­si­bil­ity for their actions and fol­lowed other suc­cess­ful peo­ple to do what they do in order to achieve results. NO EXCUSES!

 

We’re going to begin with 3 Laws of Success:

1. Vision–Decide what you really want. Is it to travel around the world? Do you want more finan­cial free­dom or time free­dom? Have a big house or fancy car? Be a singer, artist, doc­tor, author? Do you want to men­tor dis­ad­van­taged kids or feed the home­less?  If so, then you have to increase your income to make those things hap­pen. This takes vision. With­out vision, we perish.
2. Mind­set–What you think about, you bring about! The 2%‘s that are suc­cess­ful are the ones who don’t let their cir­cum­stances con­trol them. They don’t have a lot­tery men­tal­ity, but instead know that they must develop skills, train and act upon that train­ing con­sis­tently in order to get results. Instead of giv­ing up every time they see an obsta­cle or road­block, they go over it, under it and through it. They say things like what CAN I do to make it hap­pen instead of quitting.
3. Value–Increase your skill, increase your pay! A prime exam­ple is the dif­fer­ence between a gen­eral MD and a brain sur­geon. Both are greatly needed pro­fes­sions, but the brain sur­geon obvi­ously makes more because it is a SPECIALTY. Every­one is in con­trol of their skills. You need three skill sets to be successful…professional skills, peo­ple skills, then per­sonal and lead­er­ship devel­op­ment. *We will expand on these in a later post so stay tuned.

 

These are just some of the things we want you to think about if you’re strug­gling in your cur­rent cir­cum­stances. If you are tired of set­tling for medi­oc­rity and you don’t want to live your life by default any­more, if you’re ready to live your life by design, know­ing that you have a greater pur­pose then keep com­ing back to our blog for inspi­ra­tion and steps on how to change your life for the bet­ter. We KNOW you are des­tined for great things, but it’s up to YOU to make some choices and take action! YOU CAN DO IT!

To Your Success,

GHTime Code(s): nc nc nc nc nc nc nc nc nc nc nc nc nc 

Incom­ing search terms:

• your life
• life your life
• life by design not default
• life by default
• just live your life
• liv­ing life by default
• life by design brian
• life is not default
• LIVE YOUR LIVES
• liv­ing by design not by default

Like this post? Subscribe to my RSS feed and get loads more!